Sunday, October 6, 2013

Being so called the "BABY"

I am the youngest at my job which isn't anything new for me because I have always grew up amongst adults. But in a work environment I find it to be a different situation I find myself having to be a bit stern with some teachers because they think I am the youngest they are able to order me around and speak to me anyway it is frustrating but I breath in and out usually pulled them aside and explain that I am not your child and I would give you the same respect that I am expecting........UNTIIIILLLL friday when I was embarrassed in front of a parent and almost lost my cool I have never worked with this teacher and never been to this school so like any environment for a teacher in a school I am the outsider so called the "NEWBE" so no one says much and the teachers talk amongst eachother leaving you out. So the teacher for the entire day was very annoying I don't play rough with my male children but I do tickle or play football with them and run around because they are very active and want that attention so I do split my time from sitting with the female students have tea parties to running around being the Cyclops to X-Man whatever character they want me be so I guess when one of the male student went to pull my hair and blow kisses in my neck I grabbed him up to blow bubbles in his tummy turned him upside down while sitting his feet were on my shoulder cause he likes to tumble when he did it she let out this TREMENDOUS YELP! No don't do that Ms.Channel what if he falls on his head and I said what I said ok and left it alone finally the day had come to the end and the children were going home and he ran to me and did the same thing me being who I am forgetting how she felt I picked up cradled kissed him all over his forehead and cheek while his mother was smiling and the teacher walked up to me grabbed the child out my hand smiled and wish them a good weekend. When the door had closed she had said "Ms.Chanel you are young and understand that not all parents like that" before I knew it I blew a fuse and yelled that she doesn't know me and you were out of line and inappropriate to grab that child out my hand WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE! it was wrong in a professional manner but I felt she wasn't taking time to watch my teaching skills and how I understand my students I show affection weather its hugging or cradling my students I love them all the same they are at the age where they want attention and want to feel comfortable so why not give it to them there only 3 years old.

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